How to Use This as a 7‑Day Reset Before You Begin This exercise is designed to be completed between sessions over the course of one week. Day 1: Start With Yourself On the first day, your only task is to observe your own behavior. This helps reduce defensiveness, increase accountability, and soften the negative lens before focusing on your partner. You are not doing this to judge yourself. You are doing this to notice effort. Days 2-7: Shift to Observing Your Partner For the

Learn how the Love Maps exercise, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman as part of the Gottman Method, supports couples in reconnecting through deeper emotional insight and shared understanding. Instructions:   One person will begin by answering the question about their partner to the best of their ability. If they don't know the answer or can't guess correctly, they should ask their partner for the answer directly (e.g., "what's your favorite color"). The goal is not to a